Why the Smartest Dentists Hesitate Too Long

Why the Smartest Dentists Hesitate Too Long

Aug 7, 2025 9:00:00 AM / by Everything DSO

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There’s a peculiar pattern we’ve seen over and over again.

When it comes to selling a dental practice or even exploring options for what comes next, it’s not the unmotivated, underprepared, or average dentist who delays the decision.

It’s the smartest ones.

The ones with the big practices, the pristine reputations, the strong collections, and the fat retirement accounts.

These dentists have spent decades building something valuable. They’ve been deliberate and thoughtful with their money, their time, and their care for patients. They’re respected. They’re successful. They’re proud of what they’ve built.

But that pride? That thoughtfulness? That deep sense of responsibility?

It’s often the very thing that keeps them stuck.

Here’s the truth: intelligence, success, and clinical excellence don’t automatically translate to business readiness.

If anything, they can become blind spots.

Because the smarter you are, the more you believe:

  • “I’ll know when it’s time.”
  • “I’m not like other dentists—I’ve planned for this.”
  • “I’ll take care of it when the time is right.”

But as we’ve seen again and again, the “right time” doesn’t announce itself. There’s no memo from the universe. No glowing red EXIT sign.

Instead, life shows up—subtly at first:

  • You find yourself daydreaming during procedures.
  • You’re emotionally drained by staff meetings.
  • You wonder if you’re the only one who cares anymore.
  • You start calculating what a week off might feel like... and realize it won’t be enough.

And even then, most smart dentists keep grinding.

Why? Because they don’t want to make a bad move. They don’t want to appear impulsive. They don’t want to sell too soon—or to the wrong people. They don’t want to put their team or their patients at risk.

So they wait.
And in that waiting, they often lose leverage, options, and energy.

Let’s talk about what that delay really costs.

When smart dentists put off exploring their options, several things start happening—whether they notice or not:

  • Valuations can shift: A once-thriving practice that begins to decline (even slightly) due to burnout, reduced hours, or high turnover may lose value quickly.

  • Leverage disappears: The best time to explore your options is before you need them. When you're at full strength, you have negotiating power. When you're tired or losing associates, you’re more vulnerable.

  • Retirement plans wobble: Many dentists have “enough” in their retirement accounts, but that assumes a best-case scenario. Selling your practice the right way adds a safety net (and often 6–7 figures) to your next chapter.

  • Opportunities evaporate: Private equity groups, DSOs, and high-value buyers are selective. They want organized, profitable, growth-minded practices. If you don’t talk to the right people early, the best suitors move on.

But perhaps most importantly…

  • Peace of mind fades: Constantly wondering “Should I keep going?” is exhausting. You deserve to know your options, not just guess at them.

Let’s be clear: none of this is about forcing you to sell before you’re ready.

It’s about getting educated so that when the time does feel right… You know what to do.

And more importantly, you know who you can trust.

Because in the DSO world, timing is only part of the equation. Who you talk to—and what questions you ask—can make the difference between a deal you regret and a transition that sets you free.

The smart dentists who do take that first step?

They’re not the ones who jump in blindly. They’re the ones who start quietly. A quick, private conversation. No pressure. No paperwork. Just clarity.

And from that place of clarity, they gain momentum.

Some decide to sell in 6 months. Others wait 3 years. Some restructure their practice for maximum value. Others negotiate hybrid deals they never knew existed.

But all of them—all—say the same thing:

“I wish I’d had this conversation sooner.”

Not because they were ready to walk away the next day…

…but because they were finally making decisions from a place of strength, not fear.

 

If You’re Helping a Dentist, This Is for You Too

You might not be the dentist yourself.

Maybe you’re the spouse who sees the wear and tear. Maybe you’re the hygienist who notices the spark fading. Maybe you’re the friend, the broker, the financial advisor who knows your client is close, but won’t admit it yet.

Share this post. Encourage the conversation.

Sometimes, the smartest move a dentist can make… starts with someone else saying, “Hey—just talk to someone who’s done this before.”

If you’re even thinking about the next phase of your life—or you know someone who is—it’s time for a real conversation.

One where nothing is sold, but everything becomes clearer.

We’re here when you’re ready. But don’t wait too long. Because sometimes, being the smartest person in the room… is the very reason you’re stuck in it.

To your unstoppable success,
From your team at Everything DSO

Everything DSO

Written by Everything DSO

 Stan Kinder

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